Sunday, August 17, 2014


Yea, It’s understandable. I mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a person who never intended to keep you around for the long haul. And the aftermath of these situations is never pretty. (Love sometimes hurts, whats important is never to give up). So what can we do to spare ourselves the time, energy, and heartbreak that goes into determining how your partner feels about you? The following are 5 Signs that shows if your partner is really committed in that relationship.

1. You don’t know anything real about him/her
You can talk to someone for hours and hours every day and not know anything real about them. You might know details about their life, but you don’t know who they are, their real and true self that exists beneath all the superficial fluff. A serious partner will share themselves to you. They will lets her into their world and shows some level of vulnerability. They opens up to you, and shares their dreams, fears, hopes, wishes, motivations, etc., This is committing them self to you.
If your partner doesn’t share their true self with you, if they won’t let you see who he/she is at their core, the chances are high that he/she’s not in it to win it and doesn’t see a future with you.

2. They disappears for days or weeks at a time, then acts like it was no big deal
If your partner truly cares about you, they will want to make room for you in their life. Even if they have a lot going on and won’t be available for a few days, they should send a text or message to let you know he / she is thinking about you. If he / she takes vacations from the relationship with no warning it means he/ she isn’t worried about losing you, and this obviously is never a good sign.

3. They tells you they doesn’t want a relationship
This seems like an obvious one, but unfortunately, it’s not! In fact, I think the most common relationship in this day and age is the non-relationship, that is, when you’re dating someone and you’re basically boyfriend / girlfriend aside from the fact that you’re actually not. The ugly truth is this: When he/ she says they doesn’t want a relationship, what they are really saying is "They don’t want a relationship with you".

4. You don't actually have real dates
If your dates consist of you going over to their place and maybe watching a movie or for a lady, you cooking for him, then most probably your partner isn't  taking you or the relationship very seriously. A good spouse should invested in you and cares about you and always prove again and again that they care in all manner possible.

5. They won’t introduce you to their family
When you’re in a relationship, talk of meeting the family should come up. Maybe you don’t meet them right away, but he/she should give you come sort of indication that it’s on the horizon. At the very least, he should let you know that his family is aware of your existence. She should also be ready to introduce you to her parent anytime you feel you need to know them too.
If he/she doesn’t talk about his/her family, or changes the subject anytime you bring it up, it’s a sign that they have no intention of making the introduction, which actually means, he/she is never serious with you.

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