Monday, May 19, 2014


Before you start a relationship with a someone, you must think carefully about what you are about to do. A relationship is not something you should rush into or handle lightly.

Are you ready for a relationship with them? Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature to meet their needs?

Being sexually attracted to them means absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness, love or any other thing your mind may come up with. It may just be your hormones messing with your mind. Guys, a woman is more than her body and her sexuality. She has a life which you should be able to blend with.
Hey ladies, And the same applied to men too. Can you do that?

He / She  has a history. Can you handle it? They have a past. Can you handle it? Can you handle his / her mistakes, failures and weaknesses? Can you handle their dreams without being intimidated and becoming

He/She  already had a life before they met you. Can you fit into and help improve his/her life?

Love is commitment. Are you ready to commit your life to helping them grow and become all that he / she can be, by God’s grace?

Is he / she valuable enough for you to devote a large portion of your life towards the accomplishment of their dream? Are you ready to pour your resources into making them all the Lord plans for them to be? If you are not ready, don’t just bother.

Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. Guys, A lady needs much more than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment. And you Ladies, a guy needs more than just a good morning Kiss. He needs your care, motivation and respect..

If you are not ready to do all that will lead to marriage, please leave them alone in peace and stop making them think you are there for them.

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